Test for joining the Quantum Union Club

1. How do you usually resolve conflicts?

I discuss calmly and look for a solution.

Sometimes I raise my voice, but then I try to negotiate.

Usually the other person is to blame, I am rarely wrong

2. What is the most important thing for you in a relationship?

Trust and respect

Support and development

Control and loyalty at any cost

3. How do you react if your partner does not agree with you?

I'm listening and trying to understand.

I get angry, but then I calm down.

I insist that it should be as I said.

4. What do you do if someone close to you is having a hard time?

I support and listen

I try to distract, to help with something

It's hard for me to bear other people's emotions, I'd better step away

5. How do you feel about your past relationships?

Thank you for the experience

Neutral, without emotions

They were all terrible, guilty of everything.

6. Who is responsible for harmony in a couple?

Both partners

Mainly me

Usually it's another person

7. What does caring for your partner mean to you?

Support and respect for his boundaries

Sometimes guide and prompt

Know where he/she is and make decisions for him/her

8. How do you understand respect?

Listen and take each other's opinions into account

Sometimes give in to avoid arguing

When people listen to me and agree with me

9. If your partner does not share your views on something...

I respect the difference, it's normal

Sometimes I argue, but I let it go

I try to remake a person

10. How do you react when things don't go your way?

I adapt and look for new options

I get nervous, but then I let it go

I demand that it be the way I want it

11. What trait in a partner is unacceptable for you?

Lies and disrespect

Irresponsibility

Disobedience or disagreement

12. How do you imagine an ideal union?

Trust, support and joint development

Harmony and tranquility

When everything goes the way I want it to